Relationships are made of two people who are ready to accept each other irrespective of the little flaws both of them possess. As the saying goes no one is perfect, every person should embrace the imperfections of their partners and thus the journey of life becomes memorable.
Men are known to be choosy, poky and very particular. Women keep on trying to impress them when it comes to have a good relationship. But girls… get a hold of yourselves. It may be what you are thinking; your partner doesn’t even bother about. Modern men are independent and they respect their partners’ independence equally. So girls these are seven things that you might think your man is concerned about when he is actually not!!!
1. WHAT YOU WEAR
The age old idea of women being fully dressed all the time is gone. This is an age of happy-go-lucky and so is the mentality of your man. Modern men prefer comfort over dressing rules. So put on your jeans or shorts when you are going out or being with him, he wouldn’t mind. They judge you by your mind and soul, not the length of your clothes you are putting in.
2. WHETHER YOU SMOKE OR DRINK
You are a free human and choices are your independence. So if you prefer smoking and enjoy drinking don’t have inhibitions about what your man will think. He is not at all bothered about these. Yes the one who really cares about you will definitely put a check if you are overdoing these but until the limit they are just absolutely fine.
3. HAVING MALE FRIENDS
Modern men really don’t give a damn if their partners have a bunch of male friends or colleagues whom she likes to hang out with. They even go out with the gang often. So women please stop thinking that men take you as a whore if you have numerous male associations. It is completely fine with them.
4. YOUR CAREER CHOICES
No adult man in today’s time is really bothered about women’s choice of careers. Late nights, meeting abroad, projects overseas and all the other such things are completely normal according to modern men. They themselves are independent and they prefer independent women over those who really are ready to sacrifice every passion of theirs just to be around them all the time.
5. YOUR PAST
Dear women, as long as you are loyal, truthful and trustworthy to your partners they are not at all obsessed with how many men you have been with in the past. Men understand that it might be very good with someone at one point of time but walked out due to difficulties. That doesn’t make you a sinner. It is completely fine.
6. BREAKING THE CONVENTION
Modern men understand the basic necessities of modern women. They get absolutely get it that being a woman has nothing to do with being able to cook daal roti for the rest of your lives. They will respect you for other talents you have and not judge you for being a horrible cook.
7. YOU EARNING MORE THAN HIM
Modern men don’t come with an ego baggage. There is a lot more to their masculinity than salary packages. So if you are earning a few thousands more than him he will not at all be egoistic in it and rather will flaunt you with pride. In fact with the conventional social pressure given on a man to earn the bread, he would be relieved to have someone he can depend upon financially.